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那今天的话题，哎，为什么有的人很难交朋友啊？
那今天的话题，哎，为什么有的人很难交朋友啊？
对不对？
对不对？
Why do some people find it hard to make friends 注意，觉得什么什么很难，find it hard find it difficult find it challenging 或者说 find it tough 都行，对吧？
Why do some people find it hard to make friends 注意，觉得什么什么很难，find it hard find it difficult find it challenging 或者说 find it tough 都行，对吧？
Hard challenging tough difficult都行。
Hard challenging tough difficult都行。
为什么有人觉得交朋友很难？
为什么有人觉得交朋友很难？
呃，我觉得这个事有好多原因。
呃，我觉得这个事有好多原因。
那我在回答的时候，我也不确定我会说几个，我就会说，A quite few reasons
那我在回答的时候，我也不确定我会说几个，我就会说，A quite few reasons
There are actually quite a few reasons for it 对不对？
There are actually quite a few reasons for it 对不对？
有一些理由，a few reasons，first，首先呢？
有一些理由，a few reasons，first，首先呢？
首先你可以说 to begin with，可以说 first，firstly，first of all，都行。
首先你可以说 to begin with，可以说 first，firstly，first of all，都行。
我的回答喜欢言简意赅。
我的回答喜欢言简意赅。
First，我觉得许多人就是很害羞，在现现实里面很怂。
First，我觉得许多人就是很害羞，在现现实里面很怂。
什么意思啊？
什么意思啊？
I think that many many many people，形容很多人可以说 many people， Many many many many many都行。
I think that many many many people，形容很多人可以说 many people， Many many many many many都行。
They are very shy to do so 他们 too to 结构，就是特别害羞，以至于不敢这样做，对不对？
They are very shy to do so 他们 too to 结构，就是特别害羞，以至于不敢这样做，对不对？
比如说当他们跟陌生人聊天，他们会觉得非常尴尬， when they talk to some strangers someone Do you suddenly feel embarrassed Embarrassed 形容人的话是 ED 事是 ING 对不对？
比如说当他们跟陌生人聊天，他们会觉得非常尴尬， when they talk to some strangers someone Do you suddenly feel embarrassed Embarrassed 形容人的话是 ED 事是 ING 对不对？
比如说我觉得放松，I feel relaxed 这事很放松，生活很放松， The life's relaxing 同理可对呀，Embarrassed 也是这样。
比如说我觉得放松，I feel relaxed 这事很放松，生活很放松， The life's relaxing 同理可对呀，Embarrassed 也是这样。
所以我觉得无论是现实生活里，还是网上，很多人都胆子很小，对不对？
所以我觉得无论是现实生活里，还是网上，很多人都胆子很小，对不对？
很怂。
很怂。
uh I mean whether it's online or in real life online real life Online reality online in person 对吧？
uh I mean whether it's online or in real life online real life Online reality online in person 对吧？
全是现实。
全是现实。
Whether or 要么这样要么那样，要么在网上，要么在现实里面。
Whether or 要么这样要么那样，要么在网上，要么在现实里面。
Maybe it's a bit easy online 可能很多人觉得在网上更简单一点，什么意思呢？
Maybe it's a bit easy online 可能很多人觉得在网上更简单一点，什么意思呢？
But in real life they probably just don't want to speak much 很多人觉得在网上聊天可能愿意多聊点，Speak much 多说点内容，对不对？
But in real life they probably just don't want to speak much 很多人觉得在网上聊天可能愿意多聊点，Speak much 多说点内容，对不对？
Much 显得多嘛，比如说 eat too much 吃多了。
Much 显得多嘛，比如说 eat too much 吃多了。
对不对？
对不对？
这事我觉得很满意， pretty much，非常好。
这事我觉得很满意， pretty much，非常好。
这个 much 特别万能啊。
这个 much 特别万能啊。
就很多人觉得在网上可能好， OK 一点，但在现实里面呢， They don't want speak much 第一个理由啊，很害羞。
就很多人觉得在网上可能好， OK 一点，但在现实里面呢， They don't want speak much 第一个理由啊，很害羞。
第二个， second 很多人擅长打字，就不太喜欢说话。
第二个， second 很多人擅长打字，就不太喜欢说话。
A lot of people are better at how be better at be good at 很擅长什么呢？
A lot of people are better at how be better at be good at 很擅长什么呢？
Typing Typing what 打什么？
Typing Typing what 打什么？
Text message 文字信息。
Text message 文字信息。
信息有三种，文字信息、语音信息和邮件，对不对？
信息有三种，文字信息、语音信息和邮件，对不对？
E-mail 邮件，文字信息呢，Text message，语音消息呢，Voice message 对不对？
E-mail 邮件，文字信息呢，Text message，语音消息呢，Voice message 对不对？
很多人擅长什么？ Typing text message。
很多人擅长什么？ Typing text message。
比如说，like sending WeChat message，要发一些微信什么的。
比如说，like sending WeChat message，要发一些微信什么的。
注意哈，这个 sending，send 是按的那一下啊，按叫 send，text 叫编辑，text message 文字信息，or even leaving comment 会留言评论， at the videos on TikTok，比如说 TikTok 上面的这个 videos 下面的评论。
注意哈，这个 sending，send 是按的那一下啊，按叫 send，text 叫编辑，text message 文字信息，or even leaving comment 会留言评论， at the videos on TikTok，比如说 TikTok 上面的这个 videos 下面的评论。
对不对？
对不对？
比如说 leaving comment 留言， at the videos on TikTok，在抖音下面的视频的评论。
比如说 leaving comment 留言， at the videos on TikTok，在抖音下面的视频的评论。
But they are not too very good at saying hi in person 但他们在现实里不太会跟别人打招呼。
But they are not too very good at saying hi in person 但他们在现实里不太会跟别人打招呼。
打招呼可以说 say hi 可以说 make greetings 也可以说 greeting someone 都行啊，三种表达。
打招呼可以说 say hi 可以说 make greetings 也可以说 greeting someone 都行啊，三种表达。
除此之外呢， besides the most important thing is that 我觉得最重要的一件事是什么呢？
除此之外呢， besides the most important thing is that 我觉得最重要的一件事是什么呢？
很多人关注自己的生活。
很多人关注自己的生活。
A lot of people lots of people today focus more on their own lives 人们愿意关注自己的生活。
A lot of people lots of people today focus more on their own lives 人们愿意关注自己的生活。
Focus on their own lives Maybe they are really busy 他们很忙，忙什么呢？
Focus on their own lives Maybe they are really busy 他们很忙，忙什么呢？
With the regular work 日常工作， everyday study 日常的学习， daily life 每天生活，对吧？
With the regular work 日常工作， everyday study 日常的学习， daily life 每天生活，对吧？
人都忙这些事。
人都忙这些事。
So don't have uh they don't have too much time or free time to make new friends 谁有时间去交朋友啊？
So don't have uh they don't have too much time or free time to make new friends 谁有时间去交朋友啊？
这跟什么相关呢？
这跟什么相关呢？
It's about the financial conditions 跟他们的经济条件相关。
It's about the financial conditions 跟他们的经济条件相关。
It's about their life properties 生活当中的资产相关。
It's about their life properties 生活当中的资产相关。
说白了，就很多人愿意搞钱嘛，对不对？
说白了，就很多人愿意搞钱嘛，对不对？
It's all about money 你想简单说就 money So I think the two or three reasons are the main ones 所以我觉得这两三个理由是最核心的。
It's all about money 你想简单说就 money So I think the two or three reasons are the main ones 所以我觉得这两三个理由是最核心的。
So that's it 就这样。
So that's it 就这样。
其实你在去了解和在去掌握这个信息的时候呢，你可以有很多种表达。
其实你在去了解和在去掌握这个信息的时候呢，你可以有很多种表达。
但在说的时候，主体的思路呢，一定要这个方向来。
但在说的时候，主体的思路呢，一定要这个方向来。
说白了，其实有三个理由，第一个很害羞。
说白了，其实有三个理由，第一个很害羞。
就是闷闷骚呗，对不对？
就是闷闷骚呗，对不对？
第二个呢，就很多人更擅长什么？
第二个呢，就很多人更擅长什么？
打字，更喜欢这种打字，不喜欢 face to face 那种什么聊天。
打字，更喜欢这种打字，不喜欢 face to face 那种什么聊天。
第三个就很多人更愿意关注自己的生活，对不对？
第三个就很多人更愿意关注自己的生活，对不对？
Stay focus on their own lives 嗯，也就是说这些小点呢比较好用一点。
Stay focus on their own lives 嗯，也就是说这些小点呢比较好用一点。
呃，除此之外呢，这里面 Jason 还说了好多细节啊，一会我们会说长速度的和慢速英文版本，然后在最后呢会扩充一些细节。
呃，除此之外呢，这里面 Jason 还说了好多细节啊，一会我们会说长速度的和慢速英文版本，然后在最后呢会扩充一些细节。
好不啰嗦，看一下纯英文版本如何来说，一个常速版，一个慢速版。
好不啰嗦，看一下纯英文版本如何来说，一个常速版，一个慢速版。
Well, there actually quite a few reasons for it.
Well, there actually quite a few reasons for it.
First, I think that many many many people are very shy to do so.
First, I think that many many many people are very shy to do so.
For example, when they talk to someone, to some strangers.
For example, when they talk to someone, to some strangers.
They would certainly feel embarrassed.
They would certainly feel embarrassed.
I mean, whether it's online or in real life.
I mean, whether it's online or in real life.
Maybe it's a bit easy online, but in real life, they probably just don't want to speak much.
Maybe it's a bit easy online, but in real life, they probably just don't want to speak much.
Second, a lot of people are better at typing, I mean typing text message, like sending WeChat message, text message, or even leaving comment and the videos on TikTok.
Second, a lot of people are better at typing, I mean typing text message, like sending WeChat message, text message, or even leaving comment and the videos on TikTok.
But They are not good at saying hi in person.
But They are not good at saying hi in person.
Seriously, I'm not kidding.
Seriously, I'm not kidding.
Besides, the most important thing is that lots of people today focus more on their own lives.
Besides, the most important thing is that lots of people today focus more on their own lives.
I mean they are doing right.
I mean they are doing right.
Maybe they are really busy with their regular work, everyday study and daily life.
Maybe they are really busy with their regular work, everyday study and daily life.
So, they don't have uh much free time to make new friends.
So, they don't have uh much free time to make new friends.
It's all about, so this is about their financial conditions, and probably their own life properties.
It's all about, so this is about their financial conditions, and probably their own life properties.
So, I think the two or three reasons are the main ones.
So, I think the two or three reasons are the main ones.
So that's it.
So that's it.
Well, there are actually quite a few reasons for it.
Well, there are actually quite a few reasons for it.
First, I think that many many many people are very shy to do so.
First, I think that many many many people are very shy to do so.
For example, when they talk to someone, I mean, some strangers, they would certainly feel embarrassed.
For example, when they talk to someone, I mean, some strangers, they would certainly feel embarrassed.
I mean, whether it's online or in real life.
I mean, whether it's online or in real life.
Maybe it's a bit easier online, but in reality.
Maybe it's a bit easier online, but in reality.
They probably just don't want to speak much.
They probably just don't want to speak much.
Second, a lot of people are better at typing, I mean, the text message, like sending WeChat message, text message, or even leaving comment, and the videos on TikTok. But.
Second, a lot of people are better at typing, I mean, the text message, like sending WeChat message, text message, or even leaving comment, and the videos on TikTok. But.
They are not good at saying hi in person, I mean face to face.
They are not good at saying hi in person, I mean face to face.
Besides, the most important thing is that a lot of people today focus more on their own lives.
Besides, the most important thing is that a lot of people today focus more on their own lives.
I mean, they are doing right.
I mean, they are doing right.
Maybe they are really busy with their regular work, everyday study and daily life.
Maybe they are really busy with their regular work, everyday study and daily life.
So, they don't have uh too much free time to make new friends. Me too.
So, they don't have uh too much free time to make new friends. Me too.
So I mean this is about their financial conditions and their life properties So I think that the two or three reasons are the main ones So that's it 那结尾的时候，杰森说到，其实这跟每个人的自己的经济条件相关，对吧？
So I mean this is about their financial conditions and their life properties So I think that the two or three reasons are the main ones So that's it 那结尾的时候，杰森说到，其实这跟每个人的自己的经济条件相关，对吧？
大家都忙着赚钱、搞钱，谁跟你交朋友啊？
大家都忙着赚钱、搞钱，谁跟你交朋友啊？
现在都这样，我也这样，对吧？
现在都这样，我也这样，对吧？
嗯，按中文思路这样说的，人家说为什么有的人很难交朋友？
嗯，按中文思路这样说的，人家说为什么有的人很难交朋友？
我觉得原因有几个啊，第一个就是说很多人现在呢，他们很害羞，他们觉得跟别人说话很尴尬，尤其陌生人什么的，可能在网上还能好点，对吧？
我觉得原因有几个啊，第一个就是说很多人现在呢，他们很害羞，他们觉得跟别人说话很尴尬，尤其陌生人什么的，可能在网上还能好点，对吧？
比如说在网上可能留个言啊，或者说很擅长打字啊，就很多人其实都是擅长聊天的。
比如说在网上可能留个言啊，或者说很擅长打字啊，就很多人其实都是擅长聊天的。
是，我的意思是说 online 对吧？
是，我的意思是说 online 对吧？
那种 chat online 可能会更好一点。
那种 chat online 可能会更好一点。
其次呢，就是很多人呢，可能他们在现实里面跟别人说话。
其次呢，就是很多人呢，可能他们在现实里面跟别人说话。
觉得可能会浪费时间，他们更愿意专注自己的生活，说白了搞钱呗，对吧自己过得好比什么都重要。
觉得可能会浪费时间，他们更愿意专注自己的生活，说白了搞钱呗，对吧自己过得好比什么都重要。
所以说这个跟他们的经济条件什么相关，所以说我觉得主要是这两方面的因素。
所以说这个跟他们的经济条件什么相关，所以说我觉得主要是这两方面的因素。
一个呢就是人很害羞，擅长打字，在网上怎么怎么样。
一个呢就是人很害羞，擅长打字，在网上怎么怎么样。
另外就是说很多人呢，回归到生活本质，他愿意搞钱。
另外就是说很多人呢，回归到生活本质，他愿意搞钱。
好，那看一下今天的小细节啊。
好，那看一下今天的小细节啊。
首先第一个尴尬，就很多人觉得跟别人说话非常尴尬，对不对？
首先第一个尴尬，就很多人觉得跟别人说话非常尴尬，对不对？
比如说觉得尴尬， feel like 或者 feel embarrassed 其次呢，现实或者网上。
比如说觉得尴尬， feel like 或者 feel embarrassed 其次呢，现实或者网上。
你可以说 whether is online or in real life。
你可以说 whether is online or in real life。
现实呢，可以说 in real life in reality in person 对吧？
现实呢，可以说 in real life in reality in person 对吧？
那网上呢， is online 是不是在现实或者网上都是这样， wide all？
那网上呢， is online 是不是在现实或者网上都是这样， wide all？
其次呢，擅长文字信息。
其次呢，擅长文字信息。
A lot of people are better at typing text message 注意啊， send a message 说的是发送。
A lot of people are better at typing text message 注意啊， send a message 说的是发送。
比如 sending WeChat message 这种，但是呢， text message 说的是编辑信息，就那种文字信息。
比如 sending WeChat message 这种，但是呢， text message 说的是编辑信息，就那种文字信息。
然后还有语音消息， voice message 对不对？
然后还有语音消息， voice message 对不对？
嗯，再往长一点就是 email。
嗯，再往长一点就是 email。
第三个呢，留言。
第三个呢，留言。
留言就是在视频下面留言嘛。
留言就是在视频下面留言嘛。
比如说在抖音的视频下面留言， leaving comment and the videos on TikTok，就很多人特别喜欢评论，对吧？留言， comment。
比如说在抖音的视频下面留言， leaving comment and the videos on TikTok，就很多人特别喜欢评论，对吧？留言， comment。
最后呢财务情况，说白了这跟人的钱条件相关，对吧？
最后呢财务情况，说白了这跟人的钱条件相关，对吧？
Financial situation，也可以叫 financial conditions，还有什么？
Financial situation，也可以叫 financial conditions，还有什么？
就是 life properties，就他们生活当中那些资产会相关。
就是 life properties，就他们生活当中那些资产会相关。
说白了，很多人都搞钱第一位的，对不对？
说白了，很多人都搞钱第一位的，对不对？
谁跟你搞其他的呀？
谁跟你搞其他的呀？
交什么朋友啊，对不对？
交什么朋友啊，对不对？
没有兴趣。
没有兴趣。
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